Where did my spark go?

There used to be a time when I would have such a spark of enthusiasm when it came to life and things in it. Lately I have noticed that I don’t have the same spark and I would like to know what happened? There was a time that I would look at any new adventure or project and think wow this is so cool and I couldn’t wait to dig in. I would dig in so hard at times that it would encompass me, it would take my entire focus and nothing else around me mattered. I would get energized [...] Read more »

Are we giving our children too much freedom?

Texting

How do we know when enough is enough, or too much when it comes to our children? Being a single Dad of two children one 11 and one 14 it is hard for me to find the balance of giving them their freedom but also keeping tabs on them as well. Both of my children now have cell phones. This is a necessity because of various activities they have along with my crazy schedule, I need to be able to get in touch with them. Also since they live with me, they need a way to stay in touch with [...] Read more »

What’s next for the new year?

Of course the new year approaching always brings out posts like this; What to do for the new year? What resolutions to make? Where to start… Many posts also want to reflect on the past year and see what has changed or stayed the same. I for one don’t like to look back but to look forward to see how and what can be improved on in my life. However, I thought I would look back at the last decade since we are moving on to a new decade and see what has changed. I first must say that the [...] Read more »

Learning to say NO!

Just say NO! This is going to be my new mantra in life. I am always willing to say yes to most anything just to keep people happy. Well the time has come to say NO! If i am asked to do something I really don’t want to do then I am going to say NO! If I am asked to take a job that I think is not a good fit for me then I am going to say NO! If I really don’t feel good about doing something then the answer is… NO! I have thought about this [...] Read more »